Saturday, April 16, 2011

Review: Stay by Deb Caletti

Tags: YA, contemporary, unhealthy relationships


When Clara and Christian lock eyes at a busy basketball game, they feel an instantaneously intense connection to one another. Their subsequent romance is equally intense, but soon Carla realizes that things are less than perfect, as Christian displays more and more his suffocating obsession and his desperation to keep her with him.

Two summers later, Clara and her father have escaped Christian’s constant presence by moving to a small ocean town. As Carla gets to know the townspeople, some of whom have a connection with her father’s past and some with his (and her) future, she can’t shake the terror that Christian may be just a few steps away from knowing where she is, and tracking her down again.


Wow. Wow wow wow. I think I’d use the following words to describe STAY: disturbing. Beautiful. Painful. Delicately strong. STAY eloquently captures the tremulous aftermath of an emotionally harmful relationship, told in a beautiful and not overbearing prose.

The sad and scary fact is that people go through Clara’s situation every day. I know several friends who are in such relationships. And the terrifying thing about it is that there is only so much you can do to help those people. I wish I could give them all a copy of STAY. Deb Caletti’s latest offering spins a heartwrenching portrayal of Clara and Christian’s relationship, and Clara’s subsequent healing process. We feel the intensity of Clara’s attraction and caring for Christian, despite the fact that we know from the start that he is Bad News Bears. The horrible spiral that the relationship goes down is spun out subtly and convincingly.

The characters in STAY are lovely. Clara is a fairly relatable protagonist, not knowing exactly what she wants from her future, but smart enough to know what she does NOT want from her past. The thing is, any one of us could easily be Clara: there’s nothing about her that makes her stand out, that labels her immediately as a target for such a type of relationship. Clara handles the things within her control as best as she can, and I have to respect her for that.

I also love Clara’s relationship with her father. Clara’s father, a famous writer, is one of the most well written parent figures I have read recently in YA lit. He has a personality! He has his own interests and dreams and aspirations! He has his own quirks! Awesomeee.

I was less impressed with Clara’s new romance. Come on: the girl just went through the most difficult thing she’s had to go through in her life; doesn’t it make sense for her to take a break from romance? The romance just felt like it was in the story only because it is expected of YA stories to contain a romance. So, yeah. Not impressed. Clara also discovers shocking revelations about her family history, which was a side plot that wasn’t set up as well as the main one. It’s not bad, per se: it just felt like a lot of drama that didn’t entirely live up to its shock value.

Overall, however, STAY is one hell of a read. It’s beautiful, moving, and sometimes hurts to the bone to read. But at the end of it all, it is powerful and important—and best of all, it’s written well. Pick it up or buy it as a present for someone, please.

Similar Authors
Donna Freitas (This Gorgeous Game)
Sarah Dessen (Dreamland)
Elizabeth Scott

Cover discussion: This is a pretty generic cover. Yes, Clara goes to the water, but she goes to the ocean, not a, uh, lake, or whatever that's supposed to be.

Simon Pulse / April 5, 2011 / Hardcover / 320pp. / $16.99

Review copy sent by publisher. Thank you, Dawn and S&S!


  1. I absolutely loved this book! Great review.

  2. I'm so glad this book is getting as much love as it is. Deb Caletti is a master.

  3. Steph, I couldn't agree more. As we discussed on Twitter, this was such a moving, painfully beautiful novel to read. It's almost like Caletti took every single inexplicable emotion that one may feel in such a situation and turned it into poetry. That's talent. Great review!

  4. Great review! This book sounds like it's an answer to your real relationships post. I shall take a closer look.

  5. I'm really glad you liked this! I bought it last weekend at the Teen Book Con, so I am super excited to start reading it!

  6. I love that you loved Stay.

    Also, I'm with you I love how Clara's dad was made into a three-dimensional character. I feel like the three dimensional parents are really lacking in YA. It's definitely a treat when they show up.

    Plus, Caletti is right on the money with Clara's emotions towards being in an abusive relationship.

    Fantastic review!

  7. I'm a fan of Deb Caletti's books, and I'm glad you enjoyed this! I can't wait to read it.

  8. I've never read anything by Deb Caletti and just got this one. I'm glad to see yet another positive review of it. Can't wait to read it!

  9. I wasn't sure before whether to pick up this book or not... but now I am.


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