A review of Tender Morsels will be forthcoming, but in the meantime, you get to hear from Margo herself, and have a chance to win a copy of this ambitious and one-of-a-kind book! Welcome, Margo, to Steph Su Reads!
What I Do When I Get Stuck
Usually what’s happened when I get stuck is that I’ve lost perspective; I’m in too close to the story to see all the strands in the knot I’ve created. I lose the sense of a way forward, and that opens a little hole in my brain through which anxiety flows in freely. This leads to flooding of my problem-solving faculties. To sit in front of the story being anxious is fruitless. I need to go off and do something practical, unrelated to writing or story, preferably unrelated to any words at all. I need to put the problem so far out of my head that I forget the anxiety entirely, forget the details of the problem, and with them the details of the fears that are so expertly immobilising me.
Sometimes just time will fix things; after my break I’ll turn my mind back to the story and, because I’m no longer crouched tensely over it, the awkward story-bits will unlock themselves from their death-grip and let me push them around and find a solution.
I’ve learnt to recognise when I can’t take things further, when an idea has simply died on me, or I’ve fallen out of the frame of mind where I can make something of it. And again, this doesn’t have to be a disaster. Another idea will come, another story will nudge at me and start telling me how it wants to be written. If the spark of one idea has died, I won’t waste breath blowing and blowing on it, desperate for it to re-ignite. It’ll light up again - given time, given thought, given absence of fear - if it’s any good at all.
Wise words from a master storyteller to all of us aspiring writers. I'll keep Margo's advice in mind whenever I get so frustrated with my own writing that I just want to put the pen down forever. Thank you, Margo! If you want to get more of her writing, check out her blog at Among Amid While. The other bloggers participating in this tour are:
Monday, March 22nd: Through A Glass, Darkly www.throughaglass.net
Tuesday, March 23rd: Steph Su Reads http://stephsureads.blogspot.com
Wednesday, March 24th: Bildungsroman http://slayground.livejournal.com
Thursday, March 25th: Cynsations http://cynthialeitichsmith.blogspot.com/
Friday, March 26th: The Story Siren http://thestorysiren.com
Saturday, March 27th: Shaken & Stirred http://gwendabond.typepad.com/bondgirl
I hope you check these other stops out!
Thanks to the marvelous generosity of K at Random House, I have THREE (3) copies of Margo's book, Tender Morsels, to give to three lucky winners! This giveaway is open to US mailing addresses only, and ends Friday, April 9, 2010. To enter, please fill out the form below. Good luck!
Sad that I am an international blogger. :( But I loved the post! :)ReplyDelete
This is such a fascinating interview to read. As a wannabe author, it's great to know that 'real' writers also experience that moment where an idea seems to fade away - and to get some wise words about what to do when that happens. Thanks!ReplyDelete
Great post, it was lovely to read. I've read a few review on Tender Morsels and have been wanting to read it ever since.ReplyDelete
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Thanks for the giveaway!!ReplyDelete
Great post! They are very good tips, especially good for someone like me who gets impatient with myself far too easily.ReplyDelete
So many people are talking about this book, and so many of *those* people are saying how hard it was for them to read, which makes me know I want to read it. I love a good discussion provoker.ReplyDelete
Sounds like a great book. Thanks for the opportunity to enter.ReplyDelete
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Thank you for the giveaway! The book sounds interesting!ReplyDelete
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